Published June 2026 · CapeCoralListingAgent.com · Category: Seller Advice
There's a conversation I have regularly that most real estate agents never make space for.
A homeowner — usually in their 60s or 70s, someone who has lived in their Cape Coral home for 15 or 20 years — reaches out to talk about selling. And within the first few minutes, it's clear that what they want to talk about has nothing to do with list price or days on market.
They want to know if selling is actually the right decision. For their family. For their finances. For what they leave behind.
These are the conversations I live for. And they deserve honest answers.
"What happens to our taxes if we sell?"
This is almost always the first question, and it's a smart one.
If you've lived in your home as your primary residence for at least two of the last five years, the IRS allows you to exclude up to $250,000 in capital gains if you're single, or $500,000 if you're married filing jointly. For many Cape Coral homeowners who bought 10, 15, or 20 years ago, this exclusion covers all or most of the gain — and the tax impact is far smaller than they feared.
But not always. If you paid $180,000 in 2002 and the home is now worth $750,000, the math gets more complicated. That's when the conversation needs to include a CPA who can walk you through your adjusted cost basis — which includes the cost of improvements you've made over the years — and your total net gain.
A few things worth knowing:
- Florida has no state income tax, which is already working in your favor.
- If you've been renting the home out for any portion of ownership, different rules apply.
- If you're charitably inclined, there are giving strategies that can offset realized gains.
My role isn't to give tax advice — that's a conversation for your accountant. But I can help you understand the landscape and make sure you're asking the right questions before you decide.
"What about legacy? What happens to the house when we're gone?"
This one carries real weight.
Some clients want to leave their home to their children. Others worry about family disagreements — one child who wants to sell, another who doesn't. Some are considering adding a child to the deed now to simplify things later. And some are wrestling with whether it makes more financial sense to sell while they can manage the transaction themselves, rather than leaving it for their kids to navigate during an already difficult time.
There's no single right answer. But here's what I often share:
Stepped-up basis is one of the most important concepts seniors should understand. When a property passes to heirs at death, the cost basis is "stepped up" to the fair market value at the time of inheritance — which can significantly reduce or eliminate capital gains taxes for your heirs when they eventually sell. If the goal is to pass the home down, sometimes holding makes more financial sense for the family as a whole.
On the other hand, if the home is going to create conflict or stress — or if you'd rather use the equity now to fund your next chapter, your care needs, or your family while you can see them enjoy it — selling during your lifetime on your own terms is a powerful choice.
What I'd caution against: making decisions in isolation, without talking to an estate planning attorney and a financial advisor. I'm happy to recommend people I trust in both areas.
"Is this the right time to sell — or should we wait?"
I'll be honest with you: in Southwest Florida right now, sellers who have waited are sitting on a meaningful advantage. Buyer demand in Cape Coral remains strong, and quality inventory is shrinking. Homes that are well-presented, well-priced, and well-positioned are moving.
But timing a sale isn't just about the market. It's about where you are personally.
The right time to sell is when:
- You've thought through where you're going and feel good about it
- Your finances — taxes, proceeds, next-home costs — have been mapped out
- Your family is informed and aligned
- You feel ready, not pressured
I never want a seller to feel rushed. But I also want you to know: waiting indefinitely has its own costs. Markets shift. Health changes. Circumstances you can't predict can take the decision out of your hands.
The seniors I've worked with who feel best about their sale are the ones who made the decision from a place of intention — not crisis.
Let's Have This Conversation
If you're thinking about selling — even if it's a thought you've barely said out loud — I'd love to sit down with you. No pressure. No pitch. Just an honest conversation about what matters most to you and what your options actually look like.
That's where good decisions start.
Request a complimentary Home Value Report or schedule a Home Transition & Equity Planning Conversation.
Carleen Murone, GRI · REALTOR® · Living Well in SWFL at eXp Realty · Seller Representation Specialist · Cape Coral, Southwest Florida
